These videos are what I wish I had before we got my daughter’s ties released.
They will give you ideas on how to support your baby through the process. You’ll learn about how to help improve your baby’s oral function and what skilled tongue-tie support should look like. Providers like IBCLCs, Myofunctional Therapists, PTs, OTs and SLPs are helpful professionals to go to as long as they have additional training in oral ties.
Whether you suspect your baby has ties, they’ve had ties diagnosed, or they’ve already had ties released: whole-body support along with oral motor activities can help to release tension and strengthen the muscles of the mouth for better feeding and oral, facial, and airway development.
BEFORE GETTING STARTED:
Never force this on your baby! Start on their face, lips, cheeks, nose... Making it a game and even sing songs. Ask permission to go into their mouth by gently tapping on their lips and wait for them to open. Keep it short and sweet, listening to their cues for when they're ready to be done. If you push past their no, you risk the development of oral aversions.
The Say Ahh: Oral Activity Guide is a fantastic resource for learning how to do this respectfully while making it fun.
I followed it with both of my babies.
Special thanks to Sara Rafeie, RDH, Myofunctional Therapist who wrote this educational post in the group and gave permission for me to share it here!
“RDH Myo Therapist here! I thought I’d do an educational post to tackle some common questions that come up in this space. Drop a comment if you’d like to talk more about a topic or if you have a different question.
1. Sometimes the nomenclature around tongue and other oral ties can get a little confusing. One term I see getting misused often is “Revision”. Revision means to “fix” or “redo” something. If it’s a first tongue tie release, it’s called a release. If it’s a second release or beyond, then it is called a revision because the first release is being redone or fixed.
2. Preparing for and healing from a release is just as important as the release itself. For infants, you need to work with some type of feeding therapist and/or a IBCLC before and after a release. For children and adults, you must do myofunctional therapy before and after a release. Just a release alone does not fix function, and no properly trained release provider will touch a tie without the patient getting the green light from a myofunctional therapist first. If a doctor says they will do a release without Myo it means they aren’t trained properly and they just want your money. Both infants and adults should do some type of body work around the time of their releases. This is a whole body issue not just a tongue issue.
3. No doctor or dentist learns how to do a functional frenuloplasty in school. They only learn how to do a frenectomy, which is just cutting the skin. They don’t learn how to assess function or reach “posterior” tongue ties (restrictive fascia underneath the mucosa and sometimes into the genioglossus muscle). If you go to just any regular dentist, pediatrician, or ENT, chances are they won’t even know what to look for and will tell you there are no ties, or they will make things worse not better. You’re better off leaving it alone than going to the wrong person and getting a partial release and scar tissue. A properly trained myofunctional therapist or IBCLC will connect you with the right provider.
4. The person using the tool is more important than the tool itself. Just like using a good hammer doesn’t make someone a good carpenter. For infants it’s important to use lasers because they can’t get stitches. For children and adults a provider can use scissors, laser, or a combo of both. The results come down to the skill of the provider. Healing tends to be a bit faster with laser, but regardless of using a laser or not, stitches SHOULD be placed on everyone except infants. Period. The bigger the wound the bigger the scar. When stitches are placed healing is pretty similar regardless of using laser or scissors. Infants can’t get stitches because they’re too tiny and we don’t want needles around awake and wiggly baby faces. This is why you have to do stretches of the wound every few hours with infants but not for kids or adults with stitches. The stitches do all of the work of primary intention healing and preventing excess scarring.
4. The person using the tool is more important than the tool itself. Just like using a good hammer doesn’t make someone a good carpenter. For infants it’s important to use lasers because they can’t get stitches. For children and adults a provider can use scissors, laser, or a combo of both. The results come down to the skill of the provider. Healing tends to be a bit faster with laser, but regardless of using a laser or not, stitches SHOULD be placed on everyone except infants. Period. The bigger the wound the bigger the scar. When stitches are placed healing is pretty similar regardless of using laser or scissors. Infants can’t get stitches because they’re too tiny and we don’t want needles around awake and wiggly baby faces. This is why you have to do stretches of the wound every few hours with infants but not for kids or adults with stitches. The stitches do all of the work of primary intention healing and preventing excess scarring.
5. The only appropriate laser for a frenectomy/frenuloplasty is a CO2 laser. Not a diode laser or electrocautery. Diode and electro burn tissue and cause more scar tissue."
- Sara Rafeie, RDH, Myofunctional Therapist
Revealmyotherapy.com/faq
Disclaimer: The purpose of this content is for educational and informational purposes only. None of these videos are medical or professional advice. None of this content is a replacement for therapy or medical care of any kind. The examples are shown with healthy babies. Please consult a qualified healthcare provider if you have concerns or questions regarding your baby and their development.
Step-by-step instructions and troubleshooting!
Proper tongue resting posture is beneficial for:
Airway development, widening the palate, teeth and jaw development, deep, restorative sleep, and more!
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Strengthen the tongue while baby is sleeping!
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Technique by Michelle Emanuel of The Tummy Time Method
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Wound Care = Stretching the wound after tie release during healing
Oral Play = Releasing tension in the mouth and focusing on improving function. Great to start before a release and continue post-release. Great for all babies and toddlers.
Video by The Feeding Mom - Mallory Roberts
(no ties or oral dysfunction)
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This is what it should look like if a provider checks your baby for ties:
A full functional oral exam. This is not meant for parents to do and diagnose on their own but to show you what “checking for ties” should look like. Please see a skilled provider for diagnosis.
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Strengthening & Mobilizing the Tongue & Jaw
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